Monthly Archives: March 2010

New section "Great Reads For Kids"

12 March 2010

We’ve decided to add a place where we can share some of our favorite books  we have read with our children.   Many of these are older books, out of print, or  books that are being pulled from library shelves only to be replaced by revisionist propaganda. We will recommend books that we have carefully chosen that we consider to be character building books worthy to be read more than once or kept in a library for future generations. I appreciate the quote on the Lamplighters Books website “Building Character one story at a time”  Anne and I hope you’ll enjoy our list and have a chance to read some of these wonderful books.

TechnoDad

Dad's, Give your Boys more than a Degree!

30 March 2010

A few years ago,  I had a conversation with one of my nephews that I found very discouraging.  Our discussion turned to cars and I asked him if he knew how to change his oil or do simple maintenance on his new car?  His reply was  “I’ll just pay someone to do all that; I don’t want to get my hands dirty.”   I thought to myself ” What!”  What are you thinking? If you don’t know anything about your car how are you going to know if the mechanic is telling you the truth about the repair he’s just done.   This is something I found very disturbing,  not only then but now.   I also see it as a trend that most young people today seem to look down on those people who make their living working in “blue collar jobs.”   Many simply want to sit in an office all day and make big paychecks, but they for the life of them can’t change a faucet or install a spark plug.  The fact is that the “Blue Collar” guys are going to own you if you can’t even do simple things for yourself.

I remember watching an episode of a TV show called” Frasier.” The episode was called “Seat Of Power.”  In this episode Dr.  Crane played by David Hyde Pierce is talking with a plumber who also happened to be  the bully who terrorized him in school.  He  was trying to show how successful he was by telling him he owned a very expensive brand of car. The most amusing part of the scene was that the plumber used to own the same car as the doctor, but found it to small so he bought the bigger model.

My point here is that the plumber probably made just as much as the Dr.  in this case.  Yet the trades are something we’ve been discouraging instead of encouraging over the years.   This is something that needs to change because hard working people  should never be looked down upon but instead be seen as having a job that is just as valid an occupation as one held by someone with a degree.  The other point is that even if you have a degree, you should be able to do simple repairs.  It’s something our fathers and grandfathers did all the time and it’s an art that’s being lost.

Growing up my father had a job that is known as a millwright.    My Dad  could fix just about anything he could get his hands on, and while he only held a High School diploma (a diploma that he actually earned after I was born), he was well respected by those who made much more than he ever could.

I remember when ever he was fixing something around the house or building a race car (something he also did) , he was always putting tools into my hands telling me to “tighten  this or hold that.”   I learned by doing, not by watching a TV show but by actually getting dirty.  By doing so,  I picked up many of the skills that would serve me so well later in life.  My father,  like many others of the WWII generation  are now gone,  but there isn’t a day that  goes by when I  pick up a wrench or have to fix something that I don’t stop and remember those days as a boy, listening to the instructions of my dad.  My thoughts go to him and I say to myself “Thanks Dad.”   As a father of  two boys,  I’m determined to raise  young men that can do the same.  I think my Dad would be proud.

This past Christmas  I purchased each of my boys their own toolbox and began their own collection of tools.  The other day my boys called me at the office because they were trying to fix a windmill that was damaged when the city tree trimmers dropped a large branch on it and bent the rear boom.  They had already disassembled it and were trying to figure out how they would straighten the metal boom.  I told them how I would fix it and upon arriving home I found the windmill was still apart but the metal boom was straight!  The boys said, “We did what you told us  and it worked great, but we can’t get it back together.”  That was fine with me because we could work on that together.  I’m proud that they were able to get this far on their own.

While my trade is electronics and computers,  I don’t mind getting greasy.  I  love to work on cars.  There is something about hearing a motor roar back to life that gives you a good feeling inside.  I hope my boys and I can build a Hot Rod together someday.  Not to race but simply go for drives, or to just hang out in the garage and work on  it together.  Hopefully, this will allow me to hand down some of what I know,  while having some  good ol’  father  son conversations about the Bible,  how to gap a spark plug, or whatever else comes up.  Just making memories with my boys will be enough for me.  I would be so happy to have  my boys  one day, when they are older,  to look at something they’ve just fixed with their sons and say to themselves  “Thanks Dad.”

Seeya

TechnoDad

Got Freedom?

28 March 2010

“Relax, just relax and stop living in fear” my sweet Christian friends remind me. “Can we please not discuss politics today, it stresses me out.”  they plead.   “We just need to pray for our leaders and respect them”, they admonish.

My dear homeschool friends, while we pick out our curriculum and discuss learning styles,  our freedom’s are being taken away from us.  Our leader is doing  an outstanding job “fundamentally transforming America” and I am more than concerned about it.  Aren’t you?

Have we decided to just “roll-over”, keep our mouths shut and just see what happens, or should we at least discuss some options  and make a plan.  What can we do as a homeschool community to stop this advance towards socialism?

I know there are other Mom’s out there who used ABeka history and read about socialist and communist leaders like Lenin, Stalin & Mussolini. Have you seen any similarities at all with  our current leadership? Have you seen the news lately?  Did you hear Cuban dictator Fidel Castro praise the new health care plan that was just forced upon us?  He loved it, said it was a miracle and chided us for taking  so long  to enact what communist Cuba achieved decades ago.  Guess we are catching up aren’t we?

I know that I am not the  only one who is disturbed that an ornament of the Chinese mass murder chairman Mao adorned the white house Christmas tree this past year?  That really bugs me even though the first lady said she did not notice it.  If you were the first lady wouldn’t you smash that ornament and apologize? Perhaps she did not want to hurt the designers feelings?

Have you heard that the farmers in central California have lost their farms because the government took their water rights from them? ( Let me think…who was it that restricted water from his people…oh I remember, it was Sadam Hussein.)  These farmers in central California have had these farms for generations and grow most of the almonds, oranges, olives etc  that feed our entire country.

Are we outraged yet?  I am.

We have less freedom today than we did 10 days ago. The government  now controls the health care industry. This really hits homes to me.  My folks are both with the Lord now but as a family we battled colon cancer, and congestive heart failure.  It was tough .  I cannot imagine the government being allowed in our conversations and discussions.  We did not have  government interference and we had the freedom to decide what was best for our folks based on the doctors advice and our family wishes. Instead of “end of life counseling”  by government mandate, we were able to send them off to the Lord when God called them. Our “end of life counseling” included John chapter 14, Psalm 23 and the hymn “Just as I am.”  My folks medical records were private but now all medical records will be available for the governments viewing pleasure.  That can’t be good.

Have you heard that all college loans in the US will be given by the government instead of private banks? I’m not very smart, but I don’t think that will be good for the banks.  Do you think they will loan us money to go to Biola or The Master’s College?  Do I want them to loan us money?

I know I am not  very sophisticated and I did not attend a highbrow college.  Our family represents the working class; my nephew says that we are “red-neck” lite.  I say we are peasant folk.  Yet, we come from a long line of  independent thinkers with common sense and a love for God and freedom.

My Daddy was a hard working  WWII guy who grew up during the great depression. My Mom only went to 7th grade and helped support her large family.  Yet, I know if they were alive today they would agree that this administration is simply un-American.

My Dad fought off communism…why would our President choose self-proclaimed communists and socialists to work with him?

My parents would want us to work to get these guys out of office and allow freedom to reign again.  My mom would surely  remind me to “Trust in the Lord with all thy heart, lean not on thy own understanding, in all my ways acknowledge Him, and He will direct thy path”….she would say that for sure….but she would be mad too.

Thanks again for reading my ramblings and letting me vent.  If you have any great ideas let me know.

Many Blessings,  Anne

Funny Clip From Andy Griffith

14 March 2010

Hmmm maybe Barney was public schooled..

TechnoDad

Great Locomotive Chase (Disney 1956)

12 March 2010

Based on a true story that took place during the civil war, a group of Yankee soldiers along with their leader (Fess Parker) a Yankee spy tries to steal a confederate locomotive in an attempt to disrupt the confederate supply lines and bring the war to an early end.

The Great Locomotive Chase or Andrews’ Raid was a military raid that occurred April 12, 1862, in northern Georgia during the American Civil War. Volunteers from the Union Army commandeered a train and took it northwards towards Chattanooga, Tennessee, doing as much damage as possible to the vital Western & Atlantic Railroad (W&A) from Atlanta, Georgia to Chattanooga as they went, pursued by other locomotives. As they had cut the telegraph wires Confederate forces along their route had no advance notice of their arrival. The raiders were eventually captured, and some were executed as spies. Some of Andrews’ Raiders became the first recipients of the Medal of Honor.

This is a great DVD for the kids as well as for the train enthusiast.  The DVD is filled with many vintage locomotives and rolling stock.  This DVD is available though amazon.com for a very reasonable price.  Check the amazon ad on the sidebar I’ve added it as one of our recommended videos.

I rate the Great Locomotive Chase

Rating: ★★★★★★★★★☆ 

9 out of 10 Stars

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What Did We Learn Today?

10 March 2010

So often at the end of our homeschool day I ask the question that many homeschool Mom’s ask, “Did I do enough?”  Sometimes my  friend and homeschool mentor will call me and ask “Did you have a good school day today?”  As we sit at the dinner table my dear husband will often ask our  boys “What did you learn today?”

So often I think about what we did not get done.  Let me see….we did not get to our Apologia Science today.  Oh dear,  we did not get to our “Jump In” writing program.  We did not write our vocabulary sentences today….and we did not do our copywork.  Oops, we did not get to our “Daily Grams.”  Yikes!  I did not listen to them read aloud today!

What did we do….how did we spend our time today and did we learn anything at all? Would my boys have accomplished more if they were in a classroom?

Inspite of our schedule, my heart is full tonight.  As I write,  I feel as though we had a really good day, even though our list was not completed.  We talked a lot today.  We talked about the Founding Fathers  and how they shared the Gospel and spoke of the Savior in  their last Will and Testaments.  We learned that most were devout Christians. We discussed what revisionist history meant.  We watched a video on the founding fathers.

During our Math lesson we talked about patience.  I was able to talk about my own frustrations when I was a  math student and that I had to learn to manage my lack of patience. We talked about how we all have different temperaments and  that we have to manage them with prayer and perseverance. We talked about “walking away” when we feel as though we  are going to get angry. This talk was rich….my son opened his heart to me.  He said that math is becoming “sort of ” fun.

We snuggled on the couch today and read a chapter from Little Britches by Ralph Moody. We talked about how poor the family was compared to us and how they were so grateful for even the simplest things.  We named a bunch of characters from books we had read  and decided which one we would like to be….Would we rather be Johnny Tremain, Travis (from Old Yeller), Fritz, Ernest or Francis (From Swiss Family Robinson) or Ralph Moody (from Little Britches).  I think we all agreed that Travis from Old Yeller  had the best life even though he had to shoot his dog.

We worked on our Bible chapters and have three chapters memorized.  I Cor 13, Eph 6, Psalm 1 and now we are memorizing Romans 12.

We talked a lot about the Bible today and how it is God’s chosen way to reveal his thoughts. It is our final authority when we study science.   We talked about how Archeology supports the Bible and not the other way around. We read about some of the ways in which archeology is of great value to students of the Bible but that the Bible always  trumps science.

The best part of our day for me is  when I’m able to give my boys a hug and kiss  on the top of their  shiny black hair and tell them how proud I am of them. My youngest surprised me by folding the laundry that was piled on the couch.  My oldest heated up my heating pad for my aching back and brought the mail in for me.

In the afternoon my oldest son and I had a contest on the recumbent bike.  He won as he rode longer than I did.

My boys played the piano for me today and my youngest worked on a new worship song he’s learning called In Christ Alone.  My oldest played his Clemente Sonatina as fast as he could.

When Dad came home we all rejoiced….including our jumping Maltese dog “Betty.”  We ate spaghetti for dinner and thanked God for our day and the yummy food.  It was a good homeschool day.

~Anne

Are You a Legal Homeschooler?

6 March 2010

The definition of a homeschooler seems to have become so blurred, that I feel compelled to write once again about this issue.  I am going to be very straightfoward in order to be clear. Are you a legal homeschooler when you sign up for a charter school program?

Because the charter school programs are calling themselves homeschool programs, true homeschoolers have  been made more vulnerable. For over 18 years now HSLDA has fought for the rights of families to homeschool with minimal regulations.  If homschoolers contiune to rely on these government programs to help them homeschool their children,  homechooling liberties will continue to be whittled away.
When I say that those in charter schools are not true homeschoolers, I am talking legal terms.  Legally, if you are enrolled in a charter school program, you are not homeschooling  but are in the public school.   It may seem as though the words and definitions are no big deal,  but in fact the words we use have huge consequences as they describe what is actually legal and true.  For example,  if one enrolls in a public school charter, HSLDA does not recognize them or even allow them to join. Why is this so? After all you are at home with your children all day.   This is not to be unfriendly but just because it would be futile and silly to defend “homeschoolers” in public school programs. Please know and understand that you are no longer a homeschooler if you are enrolled in a government program. You are infact setting up a little public school in your home.

These definitions are made by law and the homeschooling community has had to rename certain terms in order to lessen the confusion and protect all that they have worked for decades to create.

Once again you may ask “Whats the big deal, who cares if we call a charter student a homeschooler?”  The reason it is important to make these distinctions is because homeschoolers have worked too hard for years earning a reputation and gaining  recognition from legislators all the way to next door neighbors.    HSLDA and others are working tirelessly still to defend and protect our rights while the Dept. of Ed and NEA works to undermine homeschool freedoms and get as many students back as possible.  The title or name “homeschooler” was hijacked by the public schools and it became redefined. That redefinition jeopardizes our homeschool freedoms legislatively.

I believe that the public charters use the name “homeschooler” because they know that this name is important and means so much to us. We will easily sign up if we can still “homeschool,”  but if they  offered us a public school program many would say “No thanks.”  I am talking legal terms hear and not attacking peoples dedication to their children or how they spend their days.   I think the reason it wounds and hurts some is because they have a homeschoolers heart.
Just so everyone has a clear understanding and so that homeschooling can be protected, if you are in a charter school please use the term public school, governemt school or even charter school…not homeschooler. Whether your charter school is homebased or in a classroom , these are 100% government programs.

Public schools have been around forever and they will continue to have many programs but they are not homeschool programs. HSLDA has some  predictions about the future of homeschooling if the public school continues to enroll homeschoolers.  These programs will continue to change the face of homeschooling .  HSLDA is working hard to counter bills that are constantly being produced to destroy the homeschool movement.

Personally, I am all for educational choice…….and even support  vouchers for charter or private schools. The more freedom’s and choices….the better. I also personally believe that the governmant schools are not appropriate for our Christian children…but that’s another topic.
We need to do all we can to protect our constitutional right to teach our children on our own if we want to.
For more information on charter schools please check out the following from HSLDA.

www.hslda.org/docs/nche/000010/200206260.asp

www.hslda.org/courtreport/V18N1/V18N101.asp

Homeschooling Family Granted Political Asylum

3 March 2010

The following is a reprinted article  from the HSLDA website posted January 26,2010 used by permission

Immigration Judge Says Germany Violating Basic Human Rights

In a case with international ramifications, Immigration Judge Lawrence O. Burman granted the political asylum application of a German homeschooling family. The Romeikes are Christians from Bissinggen, Germany, who fled persecution in August 2008 to seek political asylum in the United States. The request was granted January 26 after a hearing was held in Memphis, Tennessee, on January 21.

“We can’t expect every country to follow our constitution,” said Judge Burman. “The world might be a better place if it did. However, the rights being violated here are basic human rights that no country has a right to violate.”

Burman added, “Homeschoolers are a particular social group that the German government is trying to suppress. This family has a well-founded fear of persecution…therefore, they are eligible for asylum…and the court will grant asylum.”

In his ruling, Burman said that the scariest thing about this case was the motivation of the government. He noted it appeared that rather than being concerned about the welfare of the children, the government was trying to stamp out parallel societies—something the judge called “odd” and just plain “silly.” In his order the judge expressed concern that while Germany is a democratic country and is an ally, he noted that this particular policy of persecuting homeschoolers is “repellent to everything we believe as Americans.”

‘Embarrassing for Germany’

“This decision finally recognizes that German homeschoolers are a specific social group that is being persecuted by a Western democracy,” said Mike Donnelly, staff attorney and director of international relations for Home School Legal Defense Association. “It is embarrassing for Germany, since a Western nation should uphold basic human rights, which include allowing parents to raise and educate their own children. This judge understood the case perfectly, and he called Germany out. We hope this decision will cause Germany to stop persecuting homeschoolers,” he added.

The persecution of homeschoolers in Germany has been intensifying over the past several years. They are regularly fined thousands of dollars, threatened with imprisonment, or have the custody of their children taken away simply because they choose to home educate.

The Romeikes expressed relief when they heard the decision.

“We are so grateful to the judge for his ruling,” said Uwe Romeike. “We know many people, especially other German homeschoolers, have been praying for us. Their prayers and ours have been answered. We greatly appreciate the freedom to homeschool we now have in America and will be building our new life here,” he added.  Donnelly testified at the hearing on January 21, telling the immigration Judge that homeschoolers are persecuted all over Germany.

‘Ignoring the Truth’

“There is no safety for homeschoolers in Germany,” Donnelly said. “The two highest courts in Germany have ruled that it is acceptable for the German government to ‘stamp out’ homeschoolers as some kind of ‘parallel society.’ The reasoning is flawed. The fact is that homeschoolers are not a parallel society. Valid research shows that homeschoolers excel academically and socially. German courts are simply ignoring the truth that exists all over the world where homeschooling is practiced. They need to look beyond their own borders.”

In 2003 the highest administrative court in Germany, which interprets its federal Constitution, ruled in the Konrad case that it was permissible for parents who have jobs that require them to travel—such as circus performers and musicians—to homeschool, but homeschooling was prohibited for parents who wanted to for reasons of conscience. The highest criminal court said in the Paul-Plett case in 2006 that the government was allowed to take custody of children whose parents want to homeschool for reasons of conscience.

Donnelly challenged the reasoning of the German courts.

“It is ridiculous for German courts to say that homeschooling is allowed if you have practical reasons but disallowed if you have conscientious reasons,” Donnelly said. “This is simply about the German state trying to coerce ideological uniformity in a way that is frighteningly reminiscent of past history. Homeschooling is a growing social movement all over the world, and the Germans want to stamp it out based on a fabricated notion that homeschoolers are a ‘parallel society.’ Germany’s treatment of homeschooling families is worthy of condemnation from the international community. I am proud that a United States immigration judge recognized the truth of what is happening in Germany and has rendered this favorable decision for the Romeike family.”

German homeschoolers have been organizing and trying to draw the attention of German politicians. It has been difficult. Juergen Dudek is a homeschooling father who had been sentenced to 90 days in jail for homeschooling, but whose sentence was reduced to a $300 fine. He noted that officials in Germany have no appreciation for homeschoolers who think differently than the state.

‘Send a Loud Message’

“It is incredible to me that these officials give absolutely no weight to our faith or other conscientious objection to attendance at the public schools,” said Dudek. “We have had a number of families who are not homeschoolers, but who know that the German school system is failing, who called us to encourage us. In our re-hearing the judge issued a decision reducing our sentence from jail to a fine but was totally dismissive of our reasons for wanting to homeschool. We have always been encouraged by the support of American homeschoolers, and we hope that this decision will send a loud message to the German people that what our country is doing is wrong.”

A board member of the Netzwerk Bildungsfreiheit, an organization working for freedom for homeschoolers, said that the ruling would be helpful to homeschoolers in Germany.

“This decision reveals to the rest of the world that the German state acts outside the mainstream of Western democracies. Germany is in the company of countries like China, North Korea and others where fundamental human rights are not respected. Germany’s behavior exposes the totalitarian character of the German school law that takes away a parent’s right to educate their children. A decision on behalf of the Romeikes puts blame on the German government and is a serious warning to Germans officials to change their policies and further accept the rights of the parents. We hope that the decision will send a clear message to authorities in Germany to make changes right away!”

Mike Smith, president of HSLDA, also applauded the decision.

“It’s recognition that the German state is persecuting homeschoolers,” he said. “We are pleased to have been able to support this courageous family, and we hope and pray that this decision will have a decisive effect on German policy makers who should change their laws to recognize parents’ rights to educate their own children.”

If you wish to view the entire legal brief click on the link below it will download the PDF version to your computer.

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Let's Finish The Race

3 March 2010

As I write this month, I have a lot on my mind and heart regarding this calling of homeschooling. I am reluctant to share some of it, because anytime we share from our gut, we are made vulnerable. I never like that feeling. : ) Yet, I am compelled to share a few things.

I have been praying and thinking about this journey. What is my passion, regarding homeschooling? What are my concerns? Joys? Successes? Failures? What are yours? I realize and respect that the “vision” may be different for each family. Your homeschool journey may look different from mine. You may have different definitions, goals, etc. The circumstances that led you to homeschool may be entirely different from mine. With that understanding, I will share a little of our story. Most who know me well, know that I am passionate about independent homeschooling, K-12. It is my calling. And on days when I don’t “feel” the calling, it is my conviction. So I look to resources that will inspire me and help to equip me for that long journey all the way through high school, help remind me of the costs… both of home schooling and NOT homeschooling my children.

Sometimes the stresses of life and the attack of the enemy wear us down, until we are weary and vulnerable to choosing other options for educating our children… options we really are not comfortable with, never thought we would consider. For me, educating my children is a form of discipling my children. So, there is no other option. I am committed. A little like marriage.

My husband and I feel that homeschooling is “sacred”, in the way that family is sacred. To us, homeschooling is a means of “home-discipling“ our children, and it has helped us to think of homeschooling in this way.   Like marriage (which we just celebrated 25 years of! ), our commitment to homeschool is not based on how easy or difficult the season is, or how we feel, or how successful it seems, or how limited our resources are, or how tired we are, or how appealing another option looks to us, etc. But rather, our commitment to homeschooling is based on a conviction that this is what the Bible tells us to do. My prayer is that I will always choose what I believe to be the right thing, even if it is the harder thing. As the years tick by on this journey (I am finishing year 15), we often end up feeling alone and we lose confidence and clarity. We lose our vision. So I struggle at times to remind myself of why we chose to homeschool in the first place, what Biblical principles led us here, to catch that vision again. Oh yes… I remember… I look back to our little “Mission Statement” that we wrote up so many years ago. I am so glad I took the time to write down our thoughts, as they now encourage me and help direct our steps, influence our choices, bring clarity to our vision for our family and our children.  Here is a portion of it: “… We consider homeschooling a means to an end… the end being a family that loves and serves the Lord, and a Country that can continue to be free to do these things. We are practicing Biblical homeschooling rather than Government homeschooling, because we believe that the government schools do not share our vision for our family or our country. We are deliberate about choosing to disciple and train up our children without any interference or “help” from the public schools. We believe that God commands us to train up our children and disciple them in the ways of the Lord and to protect and shelter them, understanding that we are the “gate-keepers” for our family…. “ Thankfully, there are so MANY incredible resources that God has made available to help equip us for finishing the task He has called us to.  With the internet, we now have easy access to great minds and hearts that have gone before us on this journey, that have finished this race.  We have a wealth of information at our fingertips to help us keep on course, and go the distance. I appreciate their willingness to serve, to share their stories, and be an example of God’s faithfulness. My conviction and vision for my family is renewed. I am not alone. My yoke seems light again, as I read and listen to the wisdom and insight of those the Lord has taken through the deserts and the valleys, and I see how they have persevered and been faithful, in spite of it all.

As a Christian homeschooler, I find that I often need the encouragement of others to fulfill my calling as wife, mother, homemaker, and teacher. There have been many days… no seasons… when the distractions of life swoop in and derail my efforts, rob my joy, blur my “vision”. Sometimes it is something I can’t help, like illness or a move. But other times it is a condition of my own heart. Truth is, some days I would rather do something else besides serve my family through healthy meals, a clean house, or teaching the kids. I would rather go shopping, call a friend, surf the web, scrapbook! And sometimes I do. But the Lord is always faithful to whisper to my heart, and call me back to my role, renew my strength, set me back on course, clarify my vision. So, while I struggle with faithfulness throughout this journey, He is always faithful, and again, I am grateful for those servants who have made it their ministry to strengthen the homeschool family, and keep me focused on the finish line.

Springtime is full of new life… renewed life! Maybe you also need some encouragement to finish this task, renew your vision for home-discipling your children. Maybe you need a “mission statement” for your family and homeschool? Whatever that looks like for you, whether it is actually written down, or is bouncing around in your head and heart, I encourage you to be true to it, and embrace the journey God has put on your heart, for your family. Of course, the Bible is our ultimate compass, a light to our path. Seek the Lord, look to His Word, and take advantage of the many people God uses to encourage us in our calling.
Blessings,

Lynn

Reasons to Avoid Charter Schools

1 March 2010
Reasons to Avoid
Government Homeschooling Like the Plague
and Why Believers Need to Create Christ-
Centered, Private Homeschools
By Charles and Kathy Lowers

Are you tempted to join government homeschooling (a charter school or public school independent study program) or do you know someone who is? Read on!

These days, Christian parents who are thinking about homeschooling are often unaware that you can homeschool in most states without public school control. And those who do know are often tempted to join government homeschooling for the supposed goodies. The bait of free materials or the perception of getting help from “real teachers” seems inviting, but having public school employees overseeing your homeschool dramatically alters the spiritual dynamic of the home.

You need to know that there is another form of homeschooling; one that is scriptural. Private biblical homeschooling strengthens God’s design for the family and helps ensure the future right of our children and grandchildren to freely homeschool in a Christ-centered manner.

Homeschooling has always existed in this country — from the native Americans to the first Europeans to form colonies in the New World. Yet it was mostly forgotten as state funded schooling, the purpose of which is to create obedient productive citizens, pervaded the land in the 19th century. But in the late 1970′s and 1980′s, a resurgence in homeschooling began among parents who were mostly Christians. These “pioneer” families often resisted the idea that the state was supposed to control the education of their children. They blazed a path few dared to follow – with parents at the head of their children’s learning.

More than that, they discovered that biblical homeschooling changed everyone in the family, bringing them through God’s refining fire and helping strengthen their relationship with Jesus, and with each other.

Those who hated God were incensed at the idea that bible-believing parents were taking back the headship of their homes. Not only that, but the behemoth of public education was taking a financial hit whenever a child was withdrawn from public school or never entered in the first place. Strategies to stop homeschooling failed, and homeschooling was proven to be legal in all fifty states. As the fruit of raising children in the love of the Lord became evident, more and more families started doing it.

But Satan is clever and whenever Christians have fruit, he delivers a strong counter-punch. He was not going to sit back and watch generations of children being brought up in the Lord Jesus. We believe his counter-punch to homeschooling was to lure Christian parents back into the public school fold via government homeschooling. When a family goes that route, not only is the public school still financially supported, but that family is put under the control of an institution that denies the lordship of Jesus Christ. Spiritual revival of the Christian family is not likely to come out of this humanist matrix.

While we do not question the walk of those believers who enroll in government homeschooling — any more than we question the walk of the Christians who have their children enrolled in regular public school — we do urge them to consider the spiritual fruit of their decision. We urge bible-believing Christians to refrain from becoming yoked with government homeschool programs for many reasons, and to instead discover the blessings of a non-government biblical home education:

Usurping Headship

In government homeschooling, you place those who hate God over your homeschool. God is the head of the husband who is the head of the wife. The divine lines of authority established by God are disrupted when you insert the public school system into this holy order. The public school and public school mentor you are assigned in government homeschooling install themselves in the headship position — that is where the buck stops. They become the provider, director and accountability of that homeschool instead of the husband and God.

There is no free lunch — when you take public school money for homeschooling, you are agreeing to allow the state be the head of your children’s education. Education is not a neutral endeavor, but a highly spiritual matter, and one that is not separable from discipleship. God sets up “governments” in the Bible — individual, family, church and civil government — and gives responsibilities to each. Imagine the government being in charge of serving you communion or giving baptisms. Ridiculous, you would say! Those are spiritual matters God clearly gave to the church. Well, no where in scripture does God give the civil government authority over the raising of children. When God speaks of training up children — for example Proverbs 22:6 “Train up a child in the way he should go, and when he is old he will not depart from it.” He is speaking to parents, not bureaucrats.

In private homeschooling done biblically, the buck stops with the dad (or mom if there is no dad in that family). If the dad decides he doesn’t want his kids taking a certain standardized test, does he have the ultimate authority? If he picks out the textbooks and decides they are to all be Biblical, is he able to do this? If he decides he wants a child of his to skip a certain subject this year to concentrate on another, does he have the power to make that call? Only in private biblical homeschooling does the father have this authority.

Government homeschooling puts the mother under the counsel of humanists. Even if she happens to be assigned a public school mentor who is a Christian, the curriculum, methods, and goals of public education are designed to produce a carnal man of the world. Psalm 1 says, “Blessed is the man who does not walk in the counsel of the wicked.”

A family on the educational dole undergoes a spiritual change in authority as government homeschooling has no use for the husband. Homeschooling becomes “her thing” — something Mom and the public school mentor implement. He is under them. Just like in the welfare system, a dad who realizes that he is not the provider and protector soon zones out. It may seem like a subtlety to women, but this undermining of a man’s role is a powerful “dis”. When Dad checks out, Mom is left with all the work in the homeschool. If you want your husband to be actively involved in the homeschooling, don’t emasculate him by choosing government homeschooling.

In contrast, biblical homeschooling is about fathers being restored to their rightful role as heads of the homes.

Supporting a Corrupt System

We implore believers in Jesus to totally leave the public school system, which is responsible for devastating the minds and hearts of millions, which has brought untold numbers of minors to abortion clinics during school hours, which is currently the main tool of homosexual indoctrination in this country. Statistics from several ministries show that the majority of Christian kids who are sent to brick-and-mortar public schools will renounce their faith in Christ and quit going to church after high school graduation. The public school has long proven itself a producer of the most rotten fruit we see in society today — so why would a Believer want to prop up a system that is so obviously of the kingdom of darkness?

When you enroll in government homeschooling, your child is legally considered a public school student. Even though you are doing all the work, thousands of tax dollars are diverted into the public school system on behalf of your child. A bit is kicked back to parents for secular materials. Christians are inadvertently ensuring the survival of a blatantly anti-God system.

In contrast, a family that chooses private Christian homeschooling can tell their neighbors they are a blessing to taxpayers — and they do not have to feel guilty about contributing to the delinquency of America.

We need to stop viewing public school as neutral, and assuming we will have no consequences from aligning ourselves with a demonic system. As Jesus says in Matthew 7:18: “A good tree cannot bear bad fruit, nor can a bad tree bear good fruit.”

Promoting Humanist Curriculum

When you take public money for homeschooling, you are not supposed to use Christian curriculum or teach from a Christian worldview during school hours. This is true even if you bought the religious materials yourself! Federal and state laws prohibit the use of sectarian curriculum during school hours. You are agreeing to run a non-religious public school in your home during set hours when you take their freebies.

There are many who tell us “we’ll just do what we want in our home” but once you put yourself under the government, you are a sitting duck for increasing control. For example, in 2004 a charter school in North Monterey County, California lost its license to operate. One of the reasons cited was that parents were using religious texts during school hours. Parents were told that, “any religious instruction during class time for which the school received state money is against the law regardless of the source of funds used to purchase materials.” (The Monterey County Herald, March 27, 2004)

In Canada, the same thing happened — parents thought that since they were at home, they could do what they wanted and teach during the day from the religious books they purchased themselves. That was true until someone decided to enforce the law. Read the story here.

Many Christian parents just settle for using the secular texts. But nothing is neutral — secular texts actually present a worldview that says truth has nothing to do with Jesus Christ, or the books are blatantly pro-evolution or full of other prevarications.

Christians joining government homeschooling are promoting another unintended result. Since government homeschooling vouchers are only supposed to go for non-sectarian materials, the homeschool marketplace is experiencing pressure for more secular texts, even from Christian households that otherwise would purchase decidedly Christian materials. Many of the openly Christian materials produced during the recent upsurge in Christian homeschooling are being bypassed by parents in favor of non-Christian materials — which can be approved for inclusion in the portfolios that government homeschoolers must turn in to get the continued approval of the state.

Everything you present to your children influences them. When you continually introduce conflicting worldviews in the main subject matter, this gets into the heart of mind of your child. This ad says it all when it comes to why Christians should not let their children be discipled by non-Christian curriculum. This Bob Jones University advertisement very clearly illustrates this point.

At the founding of this country, books were scarce. Often families only had the Bible to teach their children to read from. And a look at the writings of children in those days shows they were more educated than modern children who have bountiful fancy equipment and curriculum.

Yoking with the Unsaved

With government homeschooling, you become unequally yoked with the unsaved. Not just in the task of educating your children by being guided by a humanist system, but in the other associations you and your children make. There are meetings and activities sponsored by the government homeschooling programs. These expose your family to ungodly peers — both for Mom, and for the children.

2 Corinthians 6: 14-17 says, “Do not be unequally yoked together with unbelievers. For what fellowship has righteousness with lawlessness? And what communion has light with darkness? And what accord has Christ with Belial? Or what part has a believer with an unbeliever? And what agreement has the temple of God with idols?” Therefore, “come out from among them and be separate, says the Lord.”

Some Christians are under the mistaken belief that since they are homeschooling and since unbelievers are homeschooling, that they are doing the same thing. But shouldn’t what we are doing be radically different from what the unsaved homeschooler next door is doing? Is this about homeschooling or is homeschooling a means to an end (in our case, raising up a child in the Lord Jesus?) Educating children cannot be severed from discipleship. Everything we teach should be in light of the lordship of Jesus Christ. Studying mathematics, for example, should be done for the purpose of being a blessing to others through our ability to say, build good bridges. And in the wonder of mathematical rules, children should see the glory of God. But unbelievers are homeschooling for very different reasons — to create what the public school is creating — a worldly child.

When you look into the eyes of your children, what do you see? An eternal being who is fearfully and wonderfully made. What does the unsaved mom sitting next to you in the government homeschooling group see in a child’s eyes? A product of evolution who lives only for this world?

When you are meeting with a public school teacher or have unsaved homeschooling friends, it makes you less likely to follow your Christian convictions. For example, you might eschew biblical discipline, knowing those in your government homeschooling program disapprove.

Some Christian families think they need government oversight for “accountability”. Since most of us are grown up public school children, we cannot fathom a situation where the government does not have its hands all over our lives. But we need to think about this biblically — no where in the Word does it say the civil government is to be responsible for keeping believers “accountable” in raising their children. Rather, the wife is to be accountable to the husband, who is to be accountable to God.

As government homeschooling becomes prominent in an area, the Christian groups often disappear. The biggest threat to the survival of the private biblical homeschooling movement, by far, is government homeschooling. Why? Christians in government homeschooling have other activities they must attend, and when they do attend private biblical homeschooling groups, there often is tension. In a homeschool support group, Mom tends to talk about her head, her goals, the activities they do and the curriculum they use. The spiritual disparity between the freedom of private biblical homeschoolers versus the bondage of the government homeschoolers becomes evident and can easily explode a good support group.

Also, Christians who join government homeschooling usually stop supporting the Christian homeschooling movement and Christian homeschooling conventions. If a public school employee picks out and pays for your curriculum, and they have their own social activities — why associate with other Christians at conventions and support groups?

Focusing on Worldly Standards

If you enroll in government homeschooling, you are agreeing to follow the agenda of a system that does not recognize Jesus as Lord. In private biblical homeschooling, you follow God’s standards. The first set of standards strives to raise up a child loyal to the state, who views all of life from an evolutionary worldview. The other seeks to raise up a child loyal to Jesus, who views all of life from a biblical worldview.

Some Christian parents claim they will act like the are following the government standards, but try to outwit them by secretly teaching God’s standards and getting the government goodies at the same time. But standards are conveyed in many ways — by the curriculum, by the teaching methods, by the teacher, and by the head of the homeschool.

Jesus made it clear that we cannot follow two masters. What kind of confusion does it foist upon a child to see the conflict of pretending to follow one system, but really attempting to follow another? Why not be openly Christian in all you do in your homeschooling? Why not just reject the world system?

We have to ask this question — why does a Christian need government homeschooling, anyway? The pioneering generations of homeschoolers who came before you did it on a shoestring and without government oversight. Many were poor, had lots of children to homeschool, and had to make their own curriculum as most textbook companies would not sell to them back then. Private biblical homeschooling has a record of outstanding academic and spiritual results — we urge families not to “go back to Egypt.”

Burning Out and Giving Up

When you first hear about government homeschooling, it might seem like it would make homeschooling easier — someone guides you and pays for stuff. But the pressure of humanists regulating your homeschool changes what you do during the day. And possibly running afoul of the government in your homeschooling can create great anxiety. Shadowed by required paperwork, diverted into doing lessons that she would never do if not for a secular institution looking over her shoulder… Mom starts to feel like an employee of the public school.

In government homeschooling, when Mom is feeling stressed about accomplishing her goals, it is Big Brother, not Dad or God, whom she is afraid of disappointing. When she has those inevitable days of feeling overwhelmed, whom does she go to for support? When she says she cannot do it, when she goes to her head for help, does she get prayed for and directed to Jesus? Or, does the public school mentor suggest the next logical step for a government homeschooler — the brick and mortar public school? Government homeschoolers are a very short step away from the physical public school, and many wind up there within a short time.

If you feel you need a helping hand when it comes to homeschooling, seek out Christian support. There exits a vast network of Christian homeschooling support groups in many areas of this country. If you cannot find a Christian homeschool support group near you — start one, or find one on-line. Or find a church that has private Christian homeschoolers. Pray that God will provide at least one other family to come alongside you.

Handing over Parental Rights

Currently, there is no greater threat to the biblical homeschooling movement than Christians enrolling in government homeschooling programs. The hard-fought parental rights won by the “pioneers” of the homeschool movement are at risk from Christians who are being lured into public school homeschooling programs. Satan hates independent Christian homeschoolers precisely because they are raising up a godly generation of young people who are serving Jesus with their whole hearts and minds. Since he who controls the curriculum controls the hearts and minds of the children, there is a deliberate push to get all homeschoolers under the control of the public school system.

Government homeschooling weakens our parental rights by drastically reducing the number of homeschoolers willing to put up a fight politically. When parents are on the educational dole, they become concerned with getting more plunder, not defending freedoms. Those who voluntarily put themselves under bondage do not understand the threat of greater government intrusion. Government homeschoolers often say things like, “Why shouldn’t all homeschoolers be required to take all the standardized tests? I’m required to. Why shouldn’t all homeschoolers be evaluated by a public school teacher? I am.”

Once there is a “critical mass” of government homeschoolers, there will be no one left to hold back the onerous regulations that all homeschoolers will be subject to.

The politicians know that government homeschoolers pose no threat to their humanist agenda. Once you accept government money, you give up your rights — dependents have no motivation to fight the system that feeds them. You have agreed to homeschooling on their terms. Anti-homeschooling liberals have made it plain they will want all homeschoolers under their authority. God never gave that authority to the civil government, only to parents. We do not have a right to delegate away the responsibility God has bestowed on parents alone.

By the way, only private homeschoolers are eligible for membership in the Home School Legal Defense Association, an organization that not only protects your family’s right to homeschool, but helps protect the rights of homeschoolers in every state.

Getting a Vision to Restore the Christian Family

We see biblical homeschooling as a Christian family restoration movement. The Christian family, and thus the nation, is in disarray, largely due to parents allowing the government to raise their children. A spiritual revival of the Christian family can only come through God and His divine order for the family, not through an anti-God system.

Since public school has been such an abysmal failure both spiritually and academically, why do you think it possesses some mystical truth that you need them for?

Shouldn’t you have a Holy Spirit led homeschool instead of a public school led one?

Earlier generations made such great sacrifices — they were hauled into court, almost had their children taken away — they fought for your right to be free of the public school bureaucrats. You need to look beyond the bait of government money and your fear of being an independent homeschooler. Look at the spiritual state of your family and consider the long-term consequences for future generations of Christian homeschoolers.

Commit yourself and the success of your homeschool to the Lord Jesus Christ. Allow your husband his rightful role as head of the home and homeschool. Instead of becoming a dependent on government educational handouts, become an advocate of protecting our God-given rights to give our children a biblical education, free from government control.

Families who have never experienced homeschooling in the Lord without answering to the government need to know that God will provide — whether it is materials, hope, courage, or wisdom. Jesus says in Matthew 6:33, “but seek first the kingdom of God and His righteousness, and all these things shall be added to you.”

The good news is that we have found that most Christian parents who homeschool will NOT go into public school homeschooling IF they are educated on the biblical reasons not to before they get into it. Once parents are under the control of the public school system — whether it be in a brick and mortar school or a government homeschooling program — they are often fearful to leave even when they see the problems with it.

Discover the blessings of a non-government controlled, private biblical home education. Private biblical homeschooling is worth so much more than getting a government controlled voucher for materials. It is about preserving our parental rights over what curriculum to use, testing decisions, what subjects to teach and how — not just for us — but for our children’s future right to homeschool our grandchildren in a 100% Christ-centered way.

More information on the threat of government homeschooling:

Charter Schools: Look Before You Leap!” by Roy Hanson

Charter Schools: The Price is Too High” by Christopher J. Klicka

Exposing a Trojan Horse” by the National Alliance of Christian Home Education Leadership

Brochure: Why Charter Schools Won’t Work for Christians; available from Christian Home Educators Association of California, www.cheaofca.org.

Booklet: Charter Schools: What is allowed, What is not, and Why Christian Parents Should Think Twice About Signing Up, by Mary Schofield; available from Christian Home Educators Association of California, www.cheaofca.org